Boy Vs Grown-up Man

Boys leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a girl to call and make plans.
Grown-up Man make their own plans and nicely tell the girl to get in where she fits in.

Boys want to control the girl in their life.
Grown-up Man know that if she's truly his, she doesn't need controlling.

Boys check you for not calling them.
Grown-up Man are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Boys are afraid to be alone.
Grown-up Man revel in it-- using it as a time for personal growth.

Boys ignore the good girls.
Grown-up Man ignore the bad girls.

Boys make you come.
Grown-up Man make you come home.


Boys worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their girl.
Grown-up Man know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any girl.

Boys try to monopolize all their girl's time (i.e, don't want him hanging with her friends).
Grown-up Man realize that a lil' bit of space makes the ''together time even more special -- and goes to kick it with his own friends!

Boys think a crying girl is weak.
Grown-up Man offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Boys get hurt by one girl and make all girls pay for it.
Grown-up Man know that that was just one girl.

Boys fall in love,chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all signs'.
Grown-up Man know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-- and move on, without bitterness.

This is something i read in a book as an article and I freaking LOVED it!! It's soooo true too!! I too will admit it though currently am between the Boy and Grown-up Man.

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