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When should someone MARRY !!!

Ah!! The heading presses to be a "Million Dollar Question" isn't it ?
I am not writing this just because i am single. I too have my own hooks hanging over my head, but I am writing this after taking a careful survey amongst a set of folks in this society. I would first put forth the views of people who are not married. I could narrow down the reasons for not getting married into the fillowing broader "reasons"
  1. Individual wants to "Settle" in life
  2. He / She wants to have a sizable bank balance
  3. He / She does not trust in "Arranged" marriage (At the same time they are not in LOVE)
  4. He / She see marriage as pure GAMBLE

So the conclusion is, people are just finding some excuse to avoid taking "Responsibilies" in life, of course i am one bachelor who is suffering from this syndrome, i too dont want to take responsibility. So what does the individual lose if he / she is SINGLE ?? - !!!!NOTHING!!!!

Well, lets here the reasons of people who got married at an early age (26 yrs and above)

  1. Its fun to have a companion and the feeling of having someone (dedicated) for you is gr8.
  2. Understanding, Frequency and Chemistry are the factors which decide the success of a marriage.
  3. Marrying for the sake of marrying is something one should not do. (Experience speaks)
  4. That is the only relationship where in you get everything unconditionally

I too agree to some extent on the points putforth by married couples, but personally i feel that, no individual should get into a relationship unless he / she is financially sound and is ready to manage the new expense. I might sound a bit "money-minded" but i am a practical person, i strongly feel that MONEY is the only factor which drives anything and everything in this world.

I would definitely take a cautious approach in finding my Ms. Perfect and unless i am satisfied with my requirement (with a little bit of compromise) i will not tie the knot.

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